I read this explanation…
Well…. let me ask you one thing, can you explain why you love someone? you may be able to tell them what it is that you love about them, but what you love about them and why you love them are two different things, personally, I find that I can’t explain why I love the person, I just do, now what I love about them are; their personality, their smile, their kind heartedness, and so on, I could go on for ever, but when you are in doubt, ask yourself this one question, “Why do i love him?”…. if the question comes to you QUICKLY, then you are not in love, if you have no idea, and feel confusion, but certainty at the same time, you may be in love.
So, its not what you would do for the person, but why you would do it, its not what you say to that person, its why you say it. you cant seem to be away from them, you cant stop thinking about them, but that is just one part of it, I believe that when they do make a mistake, or you make a mistake, that you would be able to just look past it and move on, when you can just say “so? you messed up? it is ok, I forgive you.”. Not those exact words but the general idea behind them.
When you can just look into each others eyes and know exactly what they are thinking, that is how I know I love the person that I do, and how I know he loves me, and when you love someone, it should be necessary to say “I love you” all the time, it may be nice to hear, but say it when you think the time is right, and it will be much more worth it.
And there was so much more that followed it. Just too long for this article.
Then comes the the perennial question, How do you know that it is Love (in the first place)?
And I found this…
1. When, at the beginning of the day, you are already filled with thoughts of the other person: what he/she is doing, how he/she looks, what you could do to make him/her smile today… when something good or nice happens to you, you always think of how you must share this with him/her, be it a funny story or a moment of your triumph. You always wish that he/she would be right there with you, but even if he/she isn’t, it’s okay because you know that soon you will be together and you anticipate that. No moment, no matter how dull it seems like simply watching TV together, is ever a wasted moment. Every minute counts when you’re with that person.
And much more that followed after Number 1.
What do you think is this confounded thing, called Love?
